Date Night Jar Ideas

Make a DIY date night jar with 18 printable slips grouped by staying in, going out, and dates to book ahead.

Two people playing chess at a wooden table
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18 slips for a date night jar

Download the printable slips

Stay in

  • Build a snack board from what you already have.
  • Make breakfast for dinner and pick each other's toppings.
  • Watch two short films and give each one an award.
  • Draw the same object without looking at your paper.
  • Read each other a favorite paragraph over a hot drink.
  • Put three familiar snacks in unmarked bowls and guess them.

Go out

  • Pick a pastry for each other at a bakery.
  • Take a photo walk with one color as your theme.
  • Choose one book for each other at a library or bookshop.
  • Pick a bench with a view and bring two hot drinks.
  • Find three things you've never noticed on your usual walk.
  • Visit a free gallery and choose one piece to talk about.

Save for later

  • Take a class in something neither of you has tried.
  • Find a matinee and stop for dessert afterward.
  • Take the train to a nearby town for lunch.
  • Visit a market and build a picnic from three stalls.
  • Spend an hour in a museum, then share your favorite find.
  • Recreate one part of a date you still talk about.

Build a jar you will actually use

  1. Print or copy the slips and cut between the lines. Put them in three envelopes or label the backs so you can draw from the right group.
  2. Before drawing, agree on a time window and any spending limit. Keep the Save for later slips for days when you can book ahead.
  3. Let each person pass once. Write the date on the back of a used slip and keep your favorites for another round.
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